Consider this required reading.
It makes for a better date. Promise <3

  • After reviewing the rest of the Etiquette page, please complete my booking form to express interest and begin screening.

    Please allow up to 48 hours for me to complete screening and reach out via email - if you don’t hear back, be sure to check your spam folder.

    *Not a fan of forms? That’s okay! Simply email me all of the required information from the booking form to begin the process. Emails sent with incomplete screening information will not be responded to.

  • Hey you - glad you’re back!

    Maybe you’re just getting home from our first date, aglow and wishing you’d never left. Or maybe some time has passed and you’re ready to rekindle our fire. If our first date went well, chances are I’d love to see you again.

    To arrange another date, simply email me directly with your desired date and time.

    Looking forward to hearing from ya! <3

  • I believe time is our most finite, precious resource. Therefore, I am unapologetically selective on who I share mine with. To read more about how I curate my clientele, please read my blog post on authentic connections.

    My clients are diverse in appearance, net worth, and interests - but they are all respectful, considerate, and authentically themselves.

    Please note, I do not discriminate based on race, faith, size, age, gender, orientation, abilities, etc.

  • The simplest way to complete screening is to fill out my booking form. Alternatively, you may send all required information directly via email. Both my email and website form are secure.

    I understand that divulging personal information can be uncomfortable. All information will be handled with the utmost care and discretion. Thank you for trusting me and demonstrating that you care for my sense of safety and well-being.

    If you are still not comfortable with my screening requirements, that is fine - we are simply not compatible. Please do not send me emails detailing why your situation is special and deserving of an exemption. Firstly, it is not - secondly, I will not respond.

  • I find forethought and intention to be desirable traits, and am far more likely to accept a booking that is scheduled in advance. My schedule is fluid and flexible with enough notice.

    I’m a student, spend time volunteering, travel often, have a sparkling social life, and a handful of hobbies. I’ll always make time for a good thing (you), all I ask is that you give me a little notice (48hrs + preferred)

    In the rare event that I am available for a last minute (24hrs or less) date, please add $200.

  • Incall

    I would be delighted to host at a private space in Detroit for no additional fee.

    If you would prefer I secure a location in the surrounding metro area for a date 3 hours or less, an additional incall fee of $100 will apply.

    I will provide directions to the incall location the day before our appointment along with my phone number for better communication the day of.

    Outcall

    Please include the address of your 3+ star hotel during the booking process. I do not visit personal or private residences, so please do not ask.

  • When you arrive to our date, I will offer the use of the shower to freshen up. It is both polite and expected that you accept this offer.

    In return, I can promise that I will always be minty fresh and clean for our dates. I truly love getting ready to see you!

    • Please be sure to wash your hands and ensure under your fingernails are clean.

    • Having a beard or being clean shaven is fine, but be mindful if you have abrasive stubble as my skin is sensitive to the irritation it can cause.

    • Please note, I reserve the right to ask you to shower (again, if needed) or end our date if you display poor hygiene. Please use the shower, soap, washcloth, and mouthwash provided. This would be awkward and uncomfortable for us both, so please take care of yourself and do not put me in that position. Thank you!

  • Upon arrival

    Place my rate in plain sight in an unsealed envelope at the start of our date. Please be tactful and do not make me remind you - it sets an awkward and uncomfortable tone for the date.

    Please excuse yourself a moment so I can count. It’s the perfect time to hop in the shower and freshen up. if you showered right before heading over ( as in within the last hour) please still wash your hands and swish some mouthwash.

    If we are meeting in public, putting the rate in a card or a gift bag is ideal. Bonus points for tucking it inside of a book!

    Consent and boundaries

    I expect you to be respectful of my well-being and boundaries, just as I will always be considerate of yours.

    Any attempts to negotiate my rates, physical safety, or dignity will result in the immediate conclusion of our date without a refund.

    I will always be upfront regarding my boundaries within a date and expect you to communicate any you may have as well. I take comfort and consent very seriously, both my own and yours.

  • If you would like to extend our date, simply ask! I would love to, so long as I have the availability.

    Please bring additional cash if you feel you may wish to extend our time. (In-date extension rates are $800/hr)

    *I cannot guarantee extensions - if you think you’ll want longer, book longer. It’s a sad end of the date when you want to stay but I’ve gotta go </3

  • Aww, you shouldn’t have!
    (but I so love that you did)

    Gifts are never expected, but always so appreciated. They’re a wonderful way to make a stellar first impression, or to show me that you value the connection we’ve built together.

    I’m often told by lovers that they don’t like arriving empty handed, but aren’t sure what to bring. Dark chocolates, candles, and fresh fruit (no oranges, please) go a long way to brightening my day!

    You can also peruse my wishlist or tip me directly via Cashapp - $EvelynValeX

    Thank you for thinking of me! <3

  • If you wish to reminisce on our time, I ask that you refrain from using review boards to do so. Every connection I make is unique, and it would both cheapen and end our connection if I saw intimate details of our relationship broadcasted online.

    That being said, my heart melts when a client sends me a follow-up letter expressing what a wonderful time they had with me! Truly, nothing touches me more than knowing you enjoyed our time together.

  • I am happy to provide up to two references for clients I have seen within the last 6 months.

    Please check in with me via email before using me as a reference so that I am expecting the request and know that I have your consent to provide information.

“Since my first date, I leave every date with Evelyn mesmerized and thinking about the next one, wondering if it will be as amazing as the experience I just had. Thinking nothing can top the experience I just had. Only to be proven wrong on our next date when it is even better then the previous one.”
— MV

The section below is also located on the Rates page - if you’ve already read it, great! If you missed it, please click through.

  • A non-refundable 20% deposit is required to finalize and secure an appointment.

    Tour dates, FMTY, and dates longer than 6 hours may require an increased deposit of up to 50%.

    I accept deposits via CashApp, and will share the necessary information via email. Please leave the note section blank and only send the amount requested - any extra will be considered a tip and does not apply to the remaining balance.

    The balance is to be presented in cash at the beginning of our date. Please do not arrive without cash unless you want to spend part of our time finding an ATM.

    For established connections, electronic payments can be arranged upon request and at my discretion with a 4% service fee.

    *All rates are for time and company only.

  • I understand that life happens, and will always do my best to accommodate if something occurs causing you to reschedule. If rescheduling is not an option, please see below for my cancellation policies:

    Local Dates

    • Over 48 hours in advance - Your deposit will suffice as the cancellation fee.

    • Within 48 hours - 50% cancellation fee

    • Within 24 hours - 100% cancellation fee

    Tour Dates

    • One week or more in advance - Your deposit will suffice as the cancellation fee.

    • Within one week - 100% cancellation fee.

    • Rescheduling within the same tour is an option if I have the availability - please reach out with as much notice as possible and I will happily accommodate if I am able.

    FMTY

    • One week or more in advance - you may reschedule to another date. Please have the alternative date ready when reaching out. You will be responsible for any additional fees that may occur as a result (difference in plane ticket prices, covering non-refundable expenses that have already been reserved if applicable, etc.)

    • Within one week - 100% is due.

    All cancellation fees are due within 48 hours of cancellation notice.

    If I must cancel our date for any reason, you may choose a full refund of your deposit or apply it to a future date. Refunds will be processed within 48 hours.

  • I would be delighted to host at a private space in Detroit for no additional fee.

    If you would prefer I secure a location in the surrounding metro area for a date 3 hours or less, an additional incall fee of $100 will apply.

  • Prefer the finer touches? Maybe the expansive corner suite with stunning city views calls to you, or perhaps your idea of a perfect date involves melting in pleasurable bliss together in the deep soaking tub, feeding each other chocolate covered strawberries and sipping something sweet.

    It would be my pleasure to handle all the details - treats, bubbly, room with a view, and whatever else we can dream up. Simply note this in your inquiry for a bespoke incall rate.

  • Dates 3 hours or longer must include time spent outside of the room and some form of sustenance.

    Think cocktails and small plates or coffee and pastries for shorter dates, and brunch with a matinee or dinner and a show for longer dates.

    Need ideas? Feel free to ask - I’m happy to handle the planning!

    *If you’d like to book a date 3 hours or longer without leaving the room, additional fees will apply.

  • I would be honored (and delighted) to be a part of your experience! Please see my couple’s page for further details.

“With Evelyn, I am able to come out of my shell and have a wonderful time with a smart, sweet, and charismatic woman. From the compelling conversation, to the shared laughs, to the sweet and tender moments, to the final good-bye, I cherish each and every moment with her.”
— M